How to Start a Butterfly Garden

Our county’s Master Gardeners group maintains the gardens at one of the parks in town. As part of the park, they have an area that is designated as a butterfly garden. We started taking our kids to this park early last summer when the ‘hunting painted rocks’ craze was raging. This park was a hotspot for painted rock activity! In any case, my kids (and I) fell in love with the butterfly garden. I started to think about if it would be possible to start one at home.

Around the same time as all of the rock hunting activity, we were gifted a new-to-us swing set. We already had a swing set, but ours had not fared very well on the move from our old house to the new one. It seemed wasteful to just chunk it to the curb, so my wheels started turning on a way to repurpose the set. Our yard has very little area that can be considered full sun (which is most of the time awesome, not so much when starting a garden!) I thought we might be able to turn the swing set into a hub for our butterfly garden, and had a vision of vines growing over the top of the slide and up the wooden uprights.

Getting Started

Round 1

We pushed the old swing set into the sun and against the fence. I enlisted my husband’s help to get the ground torn up around it and install a border. We ran chicken wire up the slide (for a vine to be determined later!) and replaced the swings with hooks for hanging baskets.

I started this endeavor very late in the summer last year, and my first go ’round was an epic fail. I chose a few plants I liked and a vine that I knew butterflies liked (a passion vine!) My hanging baskets burned up in the hot July sun, and my passion vine was planted way too late to gain any traction. It was not what I hoped it’d be. I shared a picture of what it looked like after last year’s failure here.

I decided this year we’d start early, do our research, and attract those butterflies!

Round 2

My oldest son and I Googled information regarding butterfly gardening in Texas. If you live in another region of the country, a quick Google search should provide a list of plants that will do well in your area! I’ll share what has started working for us. I’ve included a link at the end of this post to a helpful resource that I started with!

Here’s how our butterfly garden is looking right now. We are just getting into the hotter days of the year, and several of these plants should be taking off soon! I’ll update when they get larger, but wanted to go ahead and share so you can go ahead and get after it too.

swing set garden, upcycled swing set, Texas butterfly garden

I’ll break it down left to right so you can see what we’ve got going on!

The Plants (and Visitors!) in Our Butterfly Garden

On the Slide:

My mom and dad have a passion vine that reseeds every year. This year, they’ve had several sprout up around their yard and offered to allow us to attempt to transplant some for our butterfly garden. I hadn’t decided what vine I was going to put on the slide, but since these were going to be weedwhacked anyway I thought, “Why not?”

The passion vine is a host plant for the Gulf Fritillary, meaning it is what the caterpillars feed on. I’ll be real honest. Until researching butterfly gardens I hadn’t given much thought into whether or not caterpillars were finicky eaters. Turns out, some are.

The little guy in the pictures above either hitched a ride on one of the transplants or was laid very shortly after planting here. The pictures of him are only a few days apart. They grow fast! I’m hoping my plants can keep up with him. He’s already stripped one and has moved on to another. The plants had a bit of a shock when I moved them, but two have started putting on new growth! Hopefully he’ll move on to the next phase of his life soon, and my vines will have a chance to recover before the next one shows up.

The Ladder:

At my last house, I had a wonderful blackberry vine. As I mentioned earlier, we have very little sun in this yard – which is a bummer if you want blackberries! I decided to give the blackberry vine a shot on the ladder, knowing that it may ultimately be overrun by caterpillars. I’m not using any chemical pest control in this area (because caterpillars = butterflies!) so if it goes, it goes. But I will say, so far the caterpillars have stuck to their preferred host plants.

To the left of the ladder I’ve planted an Autumn Sage (Salvia greggii). I hear they don’t love clay soil, but my nurserywoman convinced me to give it a shot. So far, so good. There’s one species of caterpillar hanging out around the buds of this one, and my research suggests it’s that of a southern pink moth. I’ll see how much damage these guys do to my flowers before I decide how badly I want to see a southern pink moth. (There’s seriously like 10 of these little suckers at least! And it’s very strange – they eat at the bloom instead of the leaves! If you have tiny black spots, aka caterpillar poo, on the leaves of your salvia, check the blooms for these guys.)

Just to the right of the slide, I’ve planted a milkweed I found at the master gardeners’ plant sale. I know you need quite a few to attract monarchs. But my plan is just to start slow and see if it will reseed next year before I buy a bunch of them! Also, I had no idea how large those guys got!

My husband put his cacti on top of the platform so that they will be a) getting great sun and b) inaccessible to our boys/dogs. We actually have had them bloom in the past, so if they do, they’ll be another nectar source.

The Middle Ground

In the middle of the swing set we’ve got hooks for hanging baskets. I’ll take a look around now that it’s getting warmer for a few more nectar plants to put up there.

In the main area of the bed just to the right of the platform, we were able to score a perennial lantana from my husband’s mom. I’m excited to see if it’ll do well here – hers usually get pretty large by the end of the summer and is covered in butterflies!

In the front of the open area, the large bushy thing you see is a bronze leaf fennel. This was purchased as a small starter plant, and again, I had no idea how large this would be! It sends up new fronds nearly every day. But this fennel is where a lot of butterfly action happens.

The Fennel

So far on the fennel, we’ve seen a green caterpillar with white stripes (I’m pretty sure it’s just a moth!) and an abundance of black swallowtail action. I am fascinated by these butterflies, and I was even able to see – and photograph – this little lady lay her eggs here! (Which have since hatched. I brought one frond with an egg inside so the boys and I could be on baby watch!)

The Dill

Also in the center area of the garden are several dill and parsley plants. We sowed seed for these early in the spring, and have quite a few moderately sized plants. Our very first visitor (a black swallowtail caterpillar) was on one of these dill sprouts. I actually went out one morning to relocate one of the small dill plants – and couldn’t find it! It had been stripped clean. I was able to find the culprit on a nearby dill, where he stayed until he was very, very fat. He went missing while my family was on a camping trip, and I’ve been telling myself he went off to pupate and NOT to be fed to a cardinal baby.

We’ve since had another black swallowtail caterpillar hang out in our parsley, and several of my butterfly friend’s eggs have hatched.

I think these guys are so fun. Did you know that if you poke a black swallowtail caterpillar they shoot out tiny orange horns and emit an offensive smell? Me neither! But now we do.

The Other Herbs

Like the blackberry, there were a few herbs I’d been wanting to have around. I decided to go ahead and take a chance and put them in with the butterfly garden. If the caterpillars end up liking them, next season I’ll find a new spot.

I planted a lemon thyme in the front of the open area so that I can run my hands through it and smell its delicious lemon scent. One of these days I’ll see if there’s a dish I can cook with it, but I honestly just wanted it to be able to smell it! In the galvanized tub on the right of the open area I put a chocolate mint plant. Also for the smelling, but for the mojitos and cooking too! So far, the caterpillars have steered clear of both of these plants.

Coming Soon

I’ve sown some purple coneflower seeds throughout this area, so I’m hoping to see those guys coming up very soon! They (along with the lantana) will be great nectar plants for the butterflies we hope to attract. We will also be finding ‘the perfect sitting rock’ for butterflies to bask on. The butterflies will also need a shallow muddy area, as that is where they will sit to drink water.

On the Right

You can see in this photo a better shot of the mint in the tub. It is true what they say – it spreads fast, so unless you want a bed of it, contain it! You can also see some of our random dill plants from seed sprinkled in there.

In front of the post, I planted a blue mistflower. This one should grow considerably and be a wonderful nectar source as well. Most of the nectars I’ve got planned like the heat, so they should be showing off soon.

Right beside the galvanized tub we’ve planted Turk’s cap. This one will also be much larger and a nectar source once it reaches maturity. In the meantime while there’s still empty space around it, I placed another of the milkweed I got from the local plant sale in this area. Along with some dill, of course. So much dill.

The Rewards

So far, this year has already been a success in my book. We’ve attracted several species of caterpillars, so I’m certain once our nectars get going we will be seeing butterflies regularly. My kids and I so far have observed butterfly eggs along with super tiny baby caterpillars and have watched them through many stages of their caterpillar lives. We have yet to see one form (and come out of) a chrysalis, but I think the odds are in our favor.

My 6 year old son checks on “our friends” every day, and my 3 year old is particularly interested in ‘the spiky guy.’ This has been a great little biology experiment for us, and not to mention a visually pleasing addition to our back yard.

Click the image below to print a free butterfly garden planner!

If you’re looking for more summer fun, check out these posts:

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Let me know if you have any questions about starting your own garden! If you do decide to start one of your own, I’d love to see a photo! Check out the resources below for more information and helpful plant lists!

Texas Parks and Wildlife: “So You Want to Start a Butterfly Garden”

Texas Caterpillar ID

North Texas Caterpillars

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Kindergarten Roundup

Today was the last day of kindergarten for my oldest son. I only shed a handful of tears. I really can’t help but think about him leaving me for college in like a minute. (He’s got it on the brain too. Yesterday we were involved in a spat over an apology note he was writing to a neighbor, and he informed me he wouldn’t be delivering it until the last day of college!) I know we’ve still got a bit and many milestones in between, but it really does just go by so stinkin’ fast.

This morning I was looking at pictures of him from first day vs. last day, and the same thing that always happens when I look at old pictures happened again. I can’t even remember him looking so little, and it was only a few months ago. I look at baby pictures sometimes of all three boys and am just amazed at how little I remember. I’m not one of those people with a mind like a steel trap. I’m all over the place. So to combat the inevitable memory loss I started writing things down.

I shared some things that we learned in the first week of kindergarten earlier, so it only seems natural to wrap up the year with some of my favorite memories of KP + Kinder. (In fact one of my memories will be of him referring to it always as “kinder.”) We started the year on training wheels and ended with a big kid on two.

What We’ve Learned This Year (Non-Academic Edition)

So here we go. This post is mainly for me – a record of things that will hopefully help me to remember what my boy was like at age 5. His overall persona in a nutshell.

Spring Break = Party at the Beach With Your Boyz

My 5 year old and his friends planned a Spring Break trip to Galveston. It’s not what you think. This was not a typical wild and crazy week by normal Spring Break standards. (Thank the Lord. I’m so not ready for that chapter of parenthood.) They had something entirely new and equally crazy in mind. You see, one of “the guys” at school saw a YouTube video and the Pokemon in it looked real. So real, that it had him and the entire Kinder Poke-crew questioning whether or not Pokemon really are “just in the phone.” They planned to go to Galveston to hunt for these real life Pokemon. I don’t know how far the other boys took this plan, but at our house there was a bag packed. K-man told us that one of his friends had some motorcycles they were taking to get down there. The day after we initially heard of the plan, he came home and told us that at recess some of the guys said they had to cut out because their moms said no. This led to a post-bedtime-parent-pow-wow about whether or not he knew this was pretend. I think he did. I hope he did.

Support Your Friends

One of my most vivid memories from our preschool days was of the end of the year graduation program. My sweet boy stood up with his peers to sing and instead held his shirt hem wiping his nose the entire time while sobbing. He’s got some serious stage fright. He can stand up in front of his class and teacher and talk to them or act silly and be the center of attention at family gatherings. But when it comes to foreign situations where a bunch of strangers have all eyes on him (or so he thinks anyway) the nerves take over and he ceases to function.

We have pushed him to participate in some things (like preschool graduation), but our general feeling at this point in his life is that it doesn’t really make sense to force him to do these (relatively unimportant) things that make him so visibly uncomfortable. It has been our experience that as time goes on, the number of situations that send him into breakdown mode are fewer and further between. He is very self aware about this problem too. At the end of the year he told me that he was able to speak on the announcements because he’s been seeing people do it and he knew what it was like, so he wasn’t nervous.

Our first awards ceremony in kindergarten did not go very smoothly. He received an award for being a great student, but could not get himself to walk onto the stage to actually receive it. (He got it anyway.) He did go up on stage to get his last perfect attendance award this spring. Though his face said he could lose it at any minute. But he was up there. And Kindergarten graduation was a much better experience too. He sang with the group on stage, did the hand movements, and only cried once. (The procession in was a little too much to handle! Me too buddy. Me too.)

Our first Christmas program … did not go. I asked him if he’d like to participate, and he was very sure that he did not. But he did want to go watch and support his friends. This was an evening program. Have you ever had the joy of experiencing elementary school Christmas programs? It’s not really the kind of thing I want to spend an evening doing even if my kid is up there, much less if he’s not. But how could I deny that sweet boy who wanted to see his friends perform the songs they’d been learning all semester? (Or since Thanksgiving? For one week? I have no idea.) So, here’s my son at his first ever school program. Supporting his friends. I will say though, I could hear him singing a lot better when he was sitting right next to me than I would’ve had he been on stage.

Even Good Kids Mess Up Sometimes

Sometimes looking at my oldest boy is like looking in a mirror. I see some qualities in him that I am so glad he got from me, but then sometimes the not so great traits come rearing their heads. One of those traits is people-pleasing. Neither of us are super horrible offenders (I do have the ability to say no and as an adult care increasingly less about pleasing others for its own sake), but I was the kind of kid in school that wanted my teachers to know that I was good. I would have freaked out if I had to “pull a card.” I was devastated after I got a D-hall for a dress code violation in middle school. My biggest boy is just like me. He does not want any reason for people to call attention to his faults and slip-ups.

I’ve spent a lot of the year trying to get him to realize that it’s not that big of a deal if every once in a while he has to move his clip down on the behavior chart. That if he loses his sanity and gets silly in the lunch line and has to sit on the fence for a second at recess, we will all move on. That once he gets his punishment at school for these things (as long as they are infrequent and minor offenses) he will not have additional consequences at home – I just want him to tell me about them. I can say from experience that it is exhausting to be so worried about the consequences of an occasional mess-up.

I am not trying to convince my kid to get crazy – just that everybody (even a good kid) talks out of turn, plays around, and messes up sometimes. I think I may have overdone it with this. Though we’re still not doing so hot on the “tell me about it” part (I have to fish for info!), by the end of the year he told me that it’s not that big of a deal if you have to move your clip down if you’re at the highest place on the behavior chart. And it’s also not that big of a deal if you have to move down to “time-out” as long as it’s after recess and you get it moved back up by the end of the day. Not sure yet how I feel about this manipulating the system stuff, but I am pleased that he can accept a consequence and move on.

One day I was trying to get the scoop about his class having to (as a group) sit out for a few minutes at recess. He revealed that he was not in the first group to get up from the fence, so I concluded he must’ve not been one of the few innocent parties. He tried to close the conversation with, “I’ve already moved on from this…” I hadn’t moved on from it, and I still don’t know exactly what kind of playing around happened in the lunch room. But once I got what I felt was sufficient information he did close the conversation with, “It’s okay. Even good kids have to sit out sometimes.”

Puma Is Life.

My child is obsessed with Puma. I blame my mom. (She introduced him and also feeds his need! Thanks mom! *Not sarcastic. Actual thanks.) But it’s not what you think. He has no idea of what a name brand is or what quality clothes are. He literally likes the cat. He is an aspiring Wild Kratt. (I told him he can’t be a Wild Kratt because we aren’t Kratts – which led to a big discussion on if the Kratt brothers are actually brothers in real life or if it is for the show. I can hear him now, “I mean, I know they call each other bro and they call themselves ‘the Kratt brothers,’ but I don’t think they’re actually brothers.” These are exhausting conversations to have with a 5 year old.) If you ask him what his favorite animal is, sometimes he will just answer, “Predators.” But he has an affinity for big cats. And now it’s Puma or die. (This picture is perfect – Puma shirt + adventure gear. Watch out big cats.)

Never Change.

I hope that as my biggest baby boy gets older and does leave me for college (or the Amazon or whatever), he’ll still remind me of this sweet kinder baby. It has been amazing to watch how much he has grown in the last year.

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“All The Light We Cannot See” … and all the cake we can eat.

All the Light We Cannot See; why you should read this Pulitzer Prize winner

I’ve been reading All The Light We Cannot See (Anthony Doerr) for too many months to count now.But – I did it! I finished!  I started it while administering math tests last fall, and it stayed in my school bag between those tests. Then it stayed in my school bag over winter break. And through several tests this spring.

It’s a freaking long book. (Over 500 pages. Which, ultimately, flew by as the story sucked me in!) What made me choose that one for a test proctoring book I’m not really sure, except for that I really wanted to read it. Or so I thought.

In any case, I recently decided I was going to make a conscious effort to read more after a pretty big reading rut. I wrote down a list of things to try in order to increase my productivity, and set a goal to get this bad boy read by May 18. My husband didn’t think I could do it. He made more than a few comments at night when I was watching Insta-stories instead of reading.

But I know the way I work. The pressure of that deadline looming is what makes things happen. And there was no way I was going to let myself miss out on my goal reward of Nothing Bundt Cake. (Sorry not sorry to those of you who play by the rules and don’t use food as a reward. I need a shirt that says “Will read for NBC.”)

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All the Light We Cannot See; The Pulitzer Prize Winner you'll wish you'd read sooner

All The History We Cannot Forget

“All the Light We Cannot See” follows a French girl and a German boy as WWII begins, rages, and finally ends. It jumps back and forth both in time and between characters, and – once you get your bearings – sucks you in to the madness of the time period. I, like so many others, loved this book and the people in it. My knowledge of WWII is limited, but I can remember sitting in a college history class captivated by details I did not retain in high school.

Reading novels set in this time period is both eye opening and frightening. It is unnerving, especially when there are young German protagonists as in this novel, to think of how once good people – innocent young boys – were sucked into a war feeling as though they had little choice but to fight it. How easily, it seems, that so many were brainwashed. That even those with inner turmoil felt they had no choice but to comply.

Give Historical Fiction a Chance

If you are wary to read historical fiction (I was at one point in time), you should do yourself a favor and check this one out. I was worried that historical fiction novels would read like history books and be, well, boring. However what I’ve found is that they read like any other novel, but with an added layer of history and truth coupled with humanity that you do not get from a history text. Anthony Doerr devoted a decade of his life to writing the tale and was rewarded with a Pulitzer Prize.

This book made me feel, and it made me think. If you haven’t read it yet, I’ll conveniently place a nice icon that links right to Bookshop so you can start NOW. If you have read it, I hope you’ll hang around a minute and read my little one sided book club discussion! (And leave your responses in the comments? If you read my post about me falling off the reading wagon, you know my book club fizzled before it even started. Can we have a virtual club?) So, if you haven’t read it yet, what are you waiting for?

All The Questions We Can Answer

I’ve never been part of a book club that did a discussion or structured reflection on a book, and I’m honestly not sure that I’d want to. I prefer some organic conversation if there is any to be had. I do see the value in the structured questions. If I’m being honest though, my personal need from a book club is just to get out of the house for a minute – not a time for serious reflection. But since I’m sitting here by myself writing, why not.

I found some reflection questions on the Simon & Schuster website after a quick Google search. There’s a total of 15, but I won’t type out responses to all of them. If there’s one on the list I don’t answer that you want to hear my answer for, drop it in the comments.

The narration moves back and forth both in time and between different characters. How did this affect your reading experience? How do you think the experience would have been different if the story had been told entirely in chronological order?

I’ve read a lot of books that jumped between different characters’ point of views (points of view? Is this like mothers-in-law?) between chapters. One that immediately comes to mind is The Help. This book also goes back and forth in time though, and for me, that aspect took a while longer to adjust to. As with most books of this style, I think it takes a few more chapters than normal to get engrossed by the story. It takes more chapters to develop each character. I think this was especially true in this case, because the characters’ stories do not begin with any overlap. This may be the reason that the book stayed in my school bag for so long. Perhaps if after 50 or so pages I was more attached to the people, I would’ve had a deeper desire to continue their stories outside of school.

However, once I was attached, I enjoyed the different perspectives. I figured out fairly early on how their stories would be entwined, and I was anxious to see how their steps led to one another. Since the two children were on opposing sides of the war, I thought the back and forth was very appropriate.

If the book had been in chronological order, I think it might have made it easier for me to “get into” the story faster. However, had it not jumped around in time, I feel like it would’ve lacked an element of suspense. Doerr left some great cliffhangers at the ends of sections. Without them, the story would not have invoked the feeling of needing to know a resolution. I do believe it would have been captivating, but ultimately, I enjoyed the setup.

Whose story did you enjoy the most? Was there any character you wanted more insight into?

I enjoyed Werner’s story line the most. To see the war from the eyes of a young German was one of the main reasons I loved this book. So often I, as an American, have heard of WWII through the lens of the Allies. This book, for me, did an excellent job of humanizing the German troops.

To think of the young boys thrust into war at the hands of adults they trusted is heartbreaking. To think of just how young they were when they began to become indoctrinated to the teachings of Hitler is maddening. The adults in this tale are just as vile as they ought to be, but the children are what make this rendering heart breaking on both sides. Doerr did an excellent job of laying a foundation that shows just how the boys were manipulated and made to feel that they had no choice but the one that was required.

I found myself wanting a little more of Mr. LeBlanc’s story after his arrest, though I understand that his story line no longer affected his daughter’s – except from her perspective. I also sometimes wished for a chapter through the eyes of Madame Manec. How terrifying and exhilarating it must’ve been to be a layperson fighting silently and secretly against the Germans.

Reread Madame Manec’s boiling frog analogy on page 284. Etienne later asks Marie-Laure, “Who was supposed to be the frog? Her? Or the Germans?” (page 328) Who did you think Madame Manec meant? Could it have been someone other than herself or the Germans? What does it say about Etienne that he doesn’t consider himself to be the frog?

When I read Madame Manec’s analogy I only considered that she was talking about the Germans. That the slow boiling of the soldiers that the women were beginning would cause disruption, nuisance, and if nothing else drive them mad. It was not until Etienne asked Marie-Laure that I even entertained the thought that it could have been herself.

I think that Etienne was so tortured internally that he did not “slowly boil” like Madame Manec and the others. I feel that when he did act, it was not the result of things wearing him down until he felt he must. Rather, it was the only choice he had left. He did not slowly resolve to go outside, he felt forced to when he feared his niece missing.

One of Werner’s bravest moments is when he confronts von Rumpel: “All your life you wait, and then it finally comes, and are you ready?” (page 465) Have you ever had a moment like that? Were you ready? What would you say that moment is for some of the other characters?

I have never been in a life or death position as Werner found himself, and I hope never to find myself there. Though perhaps an odd connection, I find that this quote speaks to me about being thrust into motherhood. Sure there are things you can do to prepare as best you can. But when it comes down to it, it’s sink or swim. I would not say I waited all my life to become a mom. Maybe several years of my adult life. But the sentiment still holds.

I think back to the first weeks of motherhood, and I can vividly remember thinking, “I’ve never ever done anything this hard.” I can’t even say now what felt so hard. Was it the lack of sleep? The incessant crying? (Both me and him!) The sheer horror of learning to breastfeed? (It did not “come easy” to me.) The feeling that I just wanted to enjoy my baby, but the reality was that I was there for the milk, and it was only others who got to “play” with him while I rested?

Maybe I was not “ready,” but I like to think that I got it together quickly enough.

Madame Manec wanted to live before she died. I think her “moment” was heading up the women’s rebellion. Etienne was tortured by the demons of the first war. I think his “moment” was proving he was able to care for Marie-Laure even though it meant opening the door to the world he feared. Volkheimer would have otherwise been a gentle giant and wanted to be understood. I think his moment was keeping quiet about Werner finding (and hiding) the location of the illegal broadcast.

Why do you think Marie-Laure gave Werner the little iron key? Why might Werner have gone back for the wooden house but left the Sea of Flames?

I’ll admit this part of the story caught me off guard. When he realized she gave him the key, I was confused as to why. Since he was not continuing on with her, maybe she thought he could hide out there. I think she gave Werner the iron key because she could tell that he was one of the ones who would’ve been able to resist the pull of the diamond. She was ready to rid herself of the diamond. I don’t know if she wanted him to have it as a token of her appreciation for saving her life or if she knew he would return and finish the job of letting it go. Perhaps she realized how important the model of the house itself would be to him. The radio in its attic clearly had a profound impact on his life.

Werner was good. He saw the good in others, and recognized when it was fading in himself. I believe he released the diamond because he clearly saw it was the will of its owner. He was done resisting doing the right thing. My thought is that he went back for the house so that he would have a token from the girl he hardly knew but loved nonetheless.

When Werner and Marie-Laure discuss the unknown fate of Captain Nemo at the end of Twenty Thousand Leagues Under the Sea, Marie-Laure suggests the open-endedness is intentional and meant to make us wonder (page 472). Are there any unanswered questions from this story that you think are meant to make us wonder?

There’s no doubt in my mind that the author left Mr. LeBlanc’s story line open-ended intentionally. He wrapped up the story lines of every other main character. We have enough knowledge of the time to know what his fate most likely was. But I think that he wanted us to be left with the same wonderment as Marie-Laure. We are all left with the question, “What if?” It allows us to be able to entertain the possibility that the good man was not executed or left to die. Doerr could easily have told Mr. LeBlanc’s story, but chose not to.

It is hard to imagine what it would be like to wait for someone to come home without knowing if they could actually come home. We are told that Marie-Laure carried an aversion to hearing lists of names read aloud into adulthood. The hope that he was alive, though potentially of some comfort, created an ongoing heartbreak for her as she waited for her father. Perhaps it is just better to know.

I would’ve liked to have known what happened to Hubert, the homeless man who gave Marie-LeBlanc the key to the grotto. I think he intentionally left this question unanswered to give us a glimpse of a strange experience that people of the time had. That one could simply disappear, and either no one knew why or no one would speak of why. This is not a normal occurrence for us, and it is a strange reality to consider. The fact that Hubert gave Marie-Laure the key also makes me wonder if he knew he was going to disappear.

What do you think of the author’s decision to flash forward at the end of the book? Did you like getting a peek into the future of some of these characters? Did anything surprise you?

I really enjoyed the decision to flash forward. I always find myself wondering at the end of a book what paths the characters take. It was nice to have closure to the book that I invested so much time in. (And I’m sure part of that closure was for the author!)

I felt like part of the reason Doerr decided to flash forward was to remind us that though the people moved on and returned to some semblance of a normal life, the war never left them. The events of the war changed them in a profound way that continued to affect their lives. I found it especially interesting how Jutta was always aware of, and uncomfortable with, her German-ness. She was not on the front lines, but the guilt of the crimes of her people stayed with her always.

Marie-Laure’s relationship status surprised me. In my mind, she was a type to keep people she loved close with a small inner circle. To find that she ended up as a single parent was definitely not what I expected from her character.

More Questions

If you like having some reflection, there are many more questions like this at the Simon & Schuster site! I picked just a handful to share here. I’d love to hear your reflections on the questions in the comments if you need an ear. We can have a little virtual book club meeting right here.

And Now, All the Cake.

I finished the book. I earned my cake. Now I just have to go get it. It’s about a 30 minute (oh so worth it) trek to Nothing Bundt Cakes, so I’ve got to find a chunk of time to get out there. Why do they have to close at 6:00 though!?  I’ll be getting a white chocolate raspberry cake. What’s your favorite? I love them all, but that one … takes the cake.

All I’ve got to do now is figure out what’s up next. I am considering either choosing a book from a list I pinned of funny books to read or Norm Macdonald’s Based on a True Story: Not a Memoir (on recommendation from my husband and also because the man cracks me up). Let me know if you’ve got a recommendation for a light or funny read after this heavy pick!

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10 More Books to Add to your POPSUGAR Book Challenge

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Reading Challenge: Round 3

The POPSUGAR book challenge continues! If you haven’t started yet, get busy! I have read a lot of good books, a couple of not-so-great books, and a few that will go down on my “all-time” list. Additionally, I have read several books that I wouldn’t have otherwise undertaken (and most have been worth the while).

For those of you completely unfamiliar with the POPSUGAR challenge, it’s a list of prompts to fulfill instead of a traditional reading list. If you missed my first post of the series, here are the books I chose for prompts 1-10. If you missed the first post, then you probably missed the second post as well. Here are my picks for prompts 11-20 from the 2018 list.

Now for the good stuff. These are my picks for prompts 21-30:

21. A book with your favorite color in the title

I like colors, but it’s hard for me to say I have a favorite color. Initially, I chose Harold and the Purple Crayon (Crockett Johnson). Purple is a school color for both undergraduate universities I attended (Stephen F. Austin and Tarleton State). Also, a children’s book that I could read with my oldest son would be an easy win for the book challenge. But, the more I saw the book on my list, the more I decided against it. Purple isn’t my favorite color. 

As I continued thinking about my favorite color, I was trying to think of “favorite” in some sort of context. In the context of shoes, my favorite color is white (with a little bit of black). I couldn’t find any suitable books with “white with a little black” in the title. In the context of clothing, I think my favorite color is gray. However, I live in America where gray is spelled with an “a” and not an “e” so Fifty Shades of Grey (E.L. James) was out!

Finally, I decided to go with how I would have answered the “what’s your favorite color” question as a child: blue. A Spool of Blue Thread (Anne Tyler) follows the Whitshank family through four generations of happiness and dysfunction. So, it’s not just us? Good.

22. A book with alliteration in the title

Pride and Prejudice (Jane Austen) is the first result on the Goodreads Alliteration in Book Titles thread. Number three on that list is Sense and Sensibility. So, Jane Austen is the alliteration master. The story of Elizabeth Bennett and her relationship with Mr. Darcy, this book covers manners, upbringing, and marriage and family in 19th century England.

One of the most interesting tidbits I picked up after reading the book is that its working title was First Impressions, which is a very fitting title. I don’t know if I’ll move on to another Austen book, but she does have a very distinctive style of writing that I find interesting.

23. A book about time travel

The book I originally selected for this prompt was moved to a harder-to-satisfy prompt that will be covered in a future post. When I moved that book, I had to find another to satisfy this prompt. I have seen the movie adaption, so The Time Traveler’s Wife (Audrey Niffenegger) fits in with my M.O. But I didn’t really enjoy the movie, so I didn’t have  a lot of confidence that I would enjoy the book.

The next book I considered was 11.22.63 (Stephen King), but I am also reading the Bill Hodges trilogy (unrelated to this reading challenge) and I didn’t want to add on another lengthy Stephen King novel.

This will be my only re-read for this year’s book challenge. Slaughterhouse-Five (Kurt Vonnegut) was the first book I read by this author and for a while, I would’ve considered it to be among my favorite books. Billy Pilgrim is the protagonist of this anti-war classic. After surviving the bombing of Dresden, Pilgrim becomes unstuck in time, traveling back and forth, visiting the events of his life repeatedly.

24. A book with a weather element in the title

A children’s classic, The Wind in the Willows (Kenneth Grahame) is the story of Mole, Rat, Badger, and Mr. Toad who set forth on exciting adventures and misadventures. Whether on the river, in the Wild Wood, or at Toad Hall, this story involves boats, stolen automobiles, a prison break, and a siege of Mr. Toad’s own residence. So, if you’ve never read this classic, this prompt is the perfect excuse!

25. A book set at sea

My son and I are big fans of Pippi Longstocking. When I saw this prompt, I knew that Pippi in the South Seas (Astrid Lindgren) would be perfect! Unfortunately, while the characters do take a ship to an island, I couldn’t even talk myself into letting this book count for this prompt. So, while I do strongly recommend all things Pippi, I had to find something else for the book challenge.

Fortunately, I didn’t have to look far. One of the other reading lists I keep are Goodreads Choice Award winners. I don’t intend to read every award winner, but I do make note of the winners that seem interesting. One of these winners from 2015 is Dead Wake: The Last Crossing of the Lusitania (Erik Larson). Some of you probably learned about the Lusitania in the context of pulling America into World War I, but Larson’s research provides a much more accurate portrayal of the impact of the ship’s sinking (100+ year old spoiler). Additionally, Larson uses the passengers own words (through letters, telegrams, diaries, etc.) to tell the story with more emotion and from a different perspective than you get in a history class.

26. A book with an animal in the title

Let’s be honest. The third Millennium book was going to be a part of this book challenge. It could have fit in a number of prompts, but since this prompt was specific, I went with it. The hornet of genus vespa, class insecta, kingdom animalia might not be high on the list of things that you think of when you hear the word animal, but that’s not the point.

The Girl Who Kicked the Hornet’s Nest (Stieg Larsson) was translated from the original Swedish title Luftslottet som Sprängdes, which literally translates to The Air Castle that was Blown Up. As I am writing this, I’m only about halfway through the book, so while I can’t be 100% sure, I think it is metaphorical. I’ll update this post if an actual air castle shows up in that last half of the book and gets blown up.

This installment of the Millennium series finds Lisbeth Salander recovering from the events of the last novel, while Mikael Blomkvist works to prove her innocence. Additionally, Salander plots her revenge against the people who tried to destroy her life: a father who tried to have her killed and a corrupt government entity trying to protect her father.

Interestingly, Stieg Larson died before his books were published, so this was supposed to be the final book of the series. However, David Lagercrantz has released two additional books to make five total for the series.

27. A book set on a different planet

With some prompts, you just know what you’re going to read. I’m sure there are many books set on different planets. But how many of them have just been adapted into blockbuster feature films? The Martian (Andy Weir). That’s it.

Mark Watney is fatally injured during an emergency abort of the latest manned mission to Mars. Or so thought his crew. He survives. He is isolated (the only person on the planet) and he can’t communicate with his crew aboard the Hermes or with NASA back on Earth. The odds are against him in a hostile environment and only his resourcefulness to keep him alive.

28. A book with song lyrics in the title

I cheated on this one. There is no way to deny it. But, I’m in control. I decide what works and what doesn’t work. When you do your book challenge, you’re in charge and you don’t have to answer to anyone!

I think the purpose of this prompt is to find a book that has a song lyric in the title with the implication that the song existed first. I went the other way. Breakfast at Tiffany’s (Truman Capote) came well before the Deep Blue Something song was released in the mid-1990s. Who cares? I don’t.

I had never read the story of Holly Golightly, so it was interesting to read the story that produced the familiar name. Also, this edition contains three highly-praised short stories, so be sure to read them too.

29. A book about or set on Halloween

My middle child loves Halloween. He loves wearing his “pumpkin shirt” year-round. He even asked for a Halloween-themed birthday party when he turned three (read about it here)! So this prompt excited me because I knew I could pick a children’s book and read it with him. While I have no problem incorporating children’s books into the book challenge, I don’t use board books or picture books. Those are the books he loves, so I wanted to find a “longer” book to read with him, but decided that we would also read some of his Halloween favorites as well.

Lucy’s Tricks and Treats (Ilene Cooper) is what was available on Overdrive. There was another book that was available, but only in PDF format, so we skipped it. This book is about Bobby and his beagle puppy, Lucy as they prepare for Halloween. It ended up being tough to keep the little fella’s attention with this book, so we also read his go-to Halloween book, Splat the Cat: What was That?

30. A book with characters who are twins

Cutting for Stone (Abraham Verghese) is the story of Marion and Shiva stone, twin brothers orphaned by their mother’s death during childbirth and abandonment by their father. Growing up in Addis Ababa (my second favorite world capital – Djibouti’s #1, if you’re wondering), as Ethiopia moves toward revolution, the brothers are torn apart by their love for the same woman. Marion moves to New York City and has a chance encounter with the father that abandoned him as an infant, the world-renowned surgeon Thomas Stone.

What’s on Your Book Challenge?

Have you started the POPSUGAR book challenge? What did you choose for these prompts? Do any of these books interest you? Tell me what you’ve read and what you enjoyed. Even if you’re not taking part in the challenge, I still want to know what books you recommend. Maybe I can use them in the future!

Still trying to decide? Don’t forget to check out my picks for the first 10 prompts for more inspiration!

My Pick:

Here’s @oscarshead with my favorite book out of this set of prompts.

Dead Wake: The Last Crossing of the Lusitania (Erik Larson)


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